Anyway ... just posted in the spirit community. Last night I ask a psychic medium what the karmic debt is between me and my soon-to-be-ex-husband... Anyway, she said we had many former lifetimes together. That there is something that should have worked out ... role playing ... each of us try to be the "stronger (emotional and physical) one ... She said in one lifetime, when we stayed in China, he broke both my feet and kept me in our home so that I couldn't go out??? Wow.... That explain why I can't wear high heel shoes ... my feet is extremely sensitive .... The only shoes I've got, is like Nike's or Reebok's - you know, the more sporty type. I don't owe high heels or "Grand" shoes.