kmatjhwy said:
Rembrandt, now I hear what you are saying about being a natural around horses. As for myself I have not ridden or been arouund horses much but I seem to be a complete natural the few times I have ridden also.
First time I ever swung up into the saddle as a rank amateur ("Where's the ignition?"), the horse two horses back started picking a fight with my friend's horse, who was right behind me. His horse was trying to move forward, but the whol line was blocked by a chain. We were waiting for the trail boss. My horse finally tried to jump the chain, but his legs got cuaght up and we started to go over. I did what came naturally, not knowing what to do. I stayed in the saddle until I could tell which way Bear was going, then I jumped free (except that my shoe cuaght in the stirrup). Two hands grabbed me and I just got as far from the kicking horse as I could. His saddle had gotten caught in the railing and they had to let him free himself.
After the incident, they offered me a refund, but with little kids watching and now scared, there was no way I was going home. I dusted myself off, laughed about how exciting it was, saying it didn't hurt (and it didn't, really), then I went and grabbed the reins of the horse that started the fight, Flash.
Bear was a beginner's horse, Flash was for advanced riders because of his attitude. I swung up into his saddle and decided he owed me a good ride. The trail boss wanted to trade horses because hers was such a good-natured horse, but it was personal between me and Flash! Yeah, he acted up. He'd buck a little, tried taking me under low branches, tried rubbing up against fences, walking right along crumbling trail ledges, and the trail boss kept asking me if I was sure I'd never ridden before. She said I seemed to know perfectly well what I was doing with a cantankerous horse.
Finally we got into an open area and Flash broke free from the line. He was picking up speed like he was in the Kentucky Derby. The trail boss spurred her horse to come after me so she could grab the reins, but I was standing a little in the saddle so as not to bounce around too much. It was like I knew exactly what was going on and I knew how to stop it. I pulled the reins back suddenly and hard. He came to such a hard and shocked stop that he couldn't even rear up. I then turned him around and made him walk calmly back to the line. I was smiling ear to ear because that run felt so good! Add to that the fact that I had won the battle of wills against an animal that I had never personally seen before (I'd seen pictures of horses, yes, but never a close-up one!), and I'd call it a good day!
Flash behaved himself for the rest of the ride, and I have no doubt that he could have taken me out of the saddle if he was determined to, but all the while he was acting up I had this feeling like "I've busted worse nags than you, you lop-eared bandicoot!" It may be PL related (I did sling a gun to a tragic ending in a PL, and may have busted broncs for a living back then). I never considered it a 'talent', but I'd give anything to get back in the saddle again!