Will my baby's soul return to our family?

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  1. Susie

    Susie Dreamer-former moderator

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    Wendy,


    I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I could not imagine the grief you and your family must be going through. My thoughts are with you..
     
  2. Charles Stuart

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    Hi Wendy,


    Just wanted to share with you a very nice "mental vision" I had in the "half asleep/half awake" stage after corresponding with you on Friday night:


    I believe I actually "saw" the nursery I was telling you about: a lovely large white house, with many bedroom, just one floor, as the "kids" might fall down if there were stairs :) . Outside there is a veranda which goes all around it, with grass slopes with trees and flowers, where the children play during the day. I could "see" them in the garden playing with each other with large, colored plastic balls, all of them dressed in white.


    It is said that the most beautiful aspect of the superior spiritual realms is the "light". All living forms, including the trees and flowers, radiate the most beautiful light, which would make even the most beautiful of gardens here on Earth only a mere and pale copy in comparisson. Bryce is fine there, believe me, he is just saying: "Mommy's sad..."


    He will be back to you, Wendy, if not as a son or daughter, then as a grandson or granddaughter... So don't be so sad, ok? ;)
     
  3. Wendy25

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    Hi Charles,


    What a beautiful vision you had. It sounds lovely. I could only image how wonderful it would be.


    It's funny, a lady whom I only met twice; once at Bryce's baptism, and then again at his funeral, came to me and said that both her and her daughter had a dream that her mother came to visit Bryce a few days before he passed away. She told me that her mother was around him to prepare him to leave the earth and go to heaven. She also told me that she was there in heaven looking after him and other children as well. That was the type of lady she was. She told me that everything was alright, Bryce was alright, because her mother was there comforting him.


    I'm not sure if someone told me, or if I read somewhere, that there are angels or spirits who look after the little ones, and keep them safe - like the nursery you described in your vision. It is very comforting to know that even though I can not cuddle him, kiss him, care for him, and put him down to sleep here on earth, that some very special spirits or angels are caring for him, just as I would.


    I do believe that one day we will met again. And as you say he may return as my son or daughter or even as my grandchild. I just look forward to that special day when I will look into his eyes and know that it is truly him.


    Bryce was different to my other two children, and even my pregnancy with him. I felt he was different from about the 5th or 6th month of my pregnancy, and true to form when he was born he was very different and special. A mother always knows her baby, and I know that when I look into his eyes one day, I will know it is him. I had such an amazing bond with him, and I would tell him regularly 'how did I get so lucky to have you? The angels have blessed me with such a beautiful little soul.' I actually told him this again on the last day we were today. I am so glad that I did tell him that, and that was one of our last special moments together as mother and son. Bryce feels to me like a soul mate, that we are meant to be together, and that is why I know that someday we will be together again.


    Thank you again for your vision - I know my little man is safe and happy.
     
  4. Charles Stuart

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    It seems the lady's mother has been the one placed responsible for caring for him, comforting him and putting him to bed until he comes back to you...


    :) ;)
     
  5. Wendy25

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    A prediction from my daughter.


    On Sunday 6th June this year, I was watching the television when my daughter Grace sat down next to me. She began stroking my hair and cuddling into me as if she was the parent and I was the child. The movie I was watching was a violent movie (Gladiators with Russell Crowe), and I didn’t want her to see it. But Grace was adamant, she wanted to stay. Normally Grace is scared of violent movies and either goes off to her playroom or closes her eyes, but this time she remained sitting next to me throughout the whole movie.


    When the movie finished I suddenly felt overwhelmed with sadness. So I went to the bathroom to be alone. To my surprise as I turned around, there was Grace. Mummy, she said, why are you sad? I replied, because I miss Bryce. I don’t know how she knew I was sad, I wasn’t crying, and that is something I don’t want to do in front of my children (I don’t want to upset them). Grace told me that sometimes she sees Bryce in her bed at night, and sometimes she plays with him. I thought that was lovely, and I didn’t want to say anything to upset her or discourage her. I don’t know if she can see him. Maybe she sees him in her dreams. Grace went on to say, why were there bugs around Bryce when he was dead at the end of the pool. It took me a few minutes to comprehend what she was saying. Finally when I understood, I was taken aback at her use of the word ‘dead’. That is not what I say. I tell the children that he passed away or is in heaven. Then I realised that she was asking about bugs. What bugs, sweetheart, where were they and what did they look like? Bugs around Bryce just before the doctors came. Grace told me there were two bugs which were rainbow coloured. I asked her what were they doing. She put her arms out part way to make small wings, and she semi squatted down not moving very much. She didn’t buzz around like a bee or a fly would behave. Then she told me that the bugs sucked the life out of Bryce. They sucked the life out of Bryce? I repeated. Yes, like this, she said. Grace pursed her lips together as if she was drinking out of a straw. I knew we had lost Bryce before the ambulance came, so for Grace to say that two rainbow bugs sucked the life out of him didn’t come as a huge shock. I was overwhelmed and amazed at what she was telling me, and for some strange reason I asked her if she felt if Bryce would like to come back to us. She paused for a second, and then said confidently, yes. I couldn’t believe what I asked her, and then I asked another silly question to my five year old daughter, when do you think Bryce might like to come back. Without hesitation she replied, in 7 days. And with that she left the bathroom, and wasn’t around me like my little shadow for the remainder of the evening.


    I immediately told my husband what she had said. We both agreed that as she had only turned 5 a little over a month ago, that she had no concept of time, and that 7 days wasn’t possible.


    A few weeks later I found out I was pregnant, and when I checked my calendar, I noticed that I conceived on that night; the 6th June. It wasn’t until a few months had passed that I remembered what Grace had told me on that night, about the 7 days. I looked at my calendar to see if it was 7 days later that I found out I was pregnant. No – that didn’t calculate. But the 7 days stuck in my head. So I looked on the internet to see how long it takes before they classify an egg to be fertilised and is forming into a baby. I looked at 4 or 5 different websites, and they all confirmed that somewhere within 7 to 14 days of conception, the fertilised egg has travelled down the fallopian tubes and has implanted itself into the woman’s uterus, and is now forming into a baby. I had shivers when I read that. How could a 5 year old little girl know that, when she has no idea how babies are made. Even I didn’t know about that.


    :angel:
     
  6. Wendy25

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    My daughter's special prediction - continued.....


    Grace kisses my tummy regularly and tells the baby that she loves it and loves Bryce too. So one day I asked her where Bryce was. She told me in your tummy. So I asked her where is the baby? In your tummy too. Every time she talks about the baby she always mentions Bryce as well. I’m not saying that Bryce’s soul will return in this baby, but he could be with the new baby to help and comfort.


    A couple of months ago, my mum went to her bank and told the female teller that one of her daughter’s was pregnant. She asked if it was the one who had lost her child. Yes my mum replied. The teller then asked when Bryce passed away. Mum told her the end of January. She then asked when the new baby was due. Mum replied, the middle of February. The female teller turned around and said, don’t be surprised if a little piece of Bryce is in the new baby. What a strange thing for a woman who barely knows my mum to say. Either way, it was a nice message to hear.


    On 10th October, I went and had an ultrasound to see if the baby was healthy and growing properly. During the ultrasound the woman asked if we wanted to know the sex of the baby. We found out we are having a little girl. My mum told me months ago before I became pregnant, that don’t be surprised if Bryce comes back as a girl. And a couple of people here on the forum both felt the same thing. I’m not saying that Bryce’s soul will definitely come back into my daughter’s body – I don’t know. All I do know is that one day I will see him again, whether it be in a new body in this life time, or when I pass away and I’ll met him in heaven. All I want is for my children to be healthy and happy, and if Bryce is happy staying in heaven, then that is where I want him to be. I have come to accept that, and have peace with that, as much as a mother can who has lost a child.


    I would like to say thank you to everyone who has read my threads, and a special thank you to those of you who responded. Your kind words and support has helped me and my family through a very difficult time. I didn’t forget anyone or disappear, I just wanted to make sure that the baby was healthy before I told everyone the good news!


    #G^H
     
  7. Nightrain

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    Hi Wendy! I can't express how much your news has deeply affected me. Thank you so very much for keeping in touch with us, and letting us know how much you appreciate our sincere interest. Bona fortuna!
     
  8. Charles Stuart

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    So lovely to hear from you with such a lovely story, Wendy... :) :angel:
     
  9. ChrisR

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    Wendy, congratulations again on your pregnancy, and thanks for sharing your story here. Such a bitter sweet story, but I can't help feeling excited to see how all of this unfolds. Grace is an amazing little girl who seems to know more than a five year old should. So many positive signs that little Bryce is still with you and somehow I feel that there is more to come. It's good that you are keeping your feet firmly on the ground, but I think that if Bryce has decided to come back as your new daughter, then I believe you may intuitivly know the moment you gaze into her eyes.


    Please keep the updates coming :)hug2.gif
     
  10. Wendy25

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    Our Little Girl has Arrived


    For everyone who has been following my posts in the past, I would like to say that on Sunday 27th February 2011, I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl.


    The week prior to me giving birth, every day I went out in my car, a beautiful orange and black butterfly would fly past my car window. This is particularly significant to me and Bryce as the exact same species of butterfly was found in our yet to be landscaped garden just eleven days before my son passed away. The same butterfly was found dead in the place we left it only days after Bryce passed away. My beautiful little daughter wanted her daddy to give Bryce the butterfly, and so it was one of many things we sent with Bryce to his final resting place, safe inside his coffin. So for a week, all I saw was these particular butterflies. After giving birth and coming home from the hospital with my baby daughter, I suddenly noticed and realised that I was no longer seeing these butterflies. It was a good week before I saw one again.


    A very short time after I had given birth, I noticed a particular mark on my daughter's face which suddenly appeared. As quickly as the mark appeared it vanished. The mark was very similar to one made on my son after his passing. I felt it to be a sign as soon as I saw it. But like usual, I talked myself out of it, chalking it up to a coincidence, that the mark could have been made by her own hand, or possibly from the birthing process. I kept this information to myself. It wasn't until the 4th March when my husband and I was alone and chatting, and my daughter was asleep in her bouncer, that I noticed the same red mark on her face, and in the same position. I mentioned it to my husband. He came over and looked at her, and stated, who else had a mark like that? I was afraid to upset my husband but I plucked up the courage to say - Brycey. He nodded and quietly said yes. My husband is not one to believe that Bryce has returned to us in our daughter, so for him to notice it and mention it was amazing to me. The mark again disappeared within minutes of us noticing it. My daughter was asleep, and I was sitting in front of her the whole time. I honestly didn't see her move or mark her face. But that is not to say she didn't do it so quickly that I didn't notice.


    I'm not saying Bryce has definitely come back to our family. What I do know is that he is with us some how, whether as a spirit who comes to visit and leaves little signs some times, or even possibly in our daughter. Only time will tell, and either way I am happy as I know he is with us no matter what.


    We named our little princess Hope, in memory of her beautiful big brother whom I know she met in Heaven just prior to her being conceived. She has given our family so much joy, and of course a little hope as well. :angel:
     
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    Hi Wendy! Thank you very much for letting us know about your wonderful new family member, Hope. Your experience with the butterflies seems to be a remarkable validation -- a message of hope -- and I pray that you will keep us informed of any new messages or experiences along the way.
     
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    Wendy, thank you so much for keeping us updated! I've been thinking of you, and wishing the best for you and your baby. Your story has touched me deeply, and I love her name! :i:
     
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    Hi Wendy. So sorry to hear about your loss. According to Dr Michael Newtons works, it is common for souls to incarnate back into the same family if they have passed on at a young age. The reason why they die so young, could be due to freewill events, but in most cases this is a pre-planned event that you and others in your soul group will have discussed. The reason why a child may die and be brought back into the same family is usually for the experience of loss for the parents, as all of our tragic events are relate to our soul development. Stay strong Wendy and I really do believe that your child will indeed be joining you again in your current life :) x .. always remember that we can incarnate as male or female
     
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    Hi Wendy :) Thanks for the update. I've just read this whole thread again from the beginning and you've come such a long way since you lost Bryce a little over a year ago. I noticed earlier in this thread, you mentioned a 'soul-connection', a special bonding with Bryce that was 'different' to the connection that you have with your other children. After all the signs that you have received over the last 15 months since Bryce passed away, and now with the recent arrival of your baby daughter, I wonder if you 'see' or recognize the same connection with Hope? You said that "only time will tell" if Bryce has returned to your family, but I personally believe that the only answer to that question is already within you. hug2.gif
     
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    (((((((Wendy)))))))


    You already know that I am so very happy for you and your family. Hope is a beautiful, precious baby girl, and I can see how much joy her arrival has brought into your lives.


    Thank you for sharing your story with everyone.


    Big hugs for you all,


    Aili
     
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    I loved reading this entire thread and decided to join. Wendy, I too lost my 18 month old daughter in a drowning accident in 2010. Sorry for your loss. I too had so many dreams before my daughter was born, and after. My husband always dreamt of her while I was pregnant and he kept saying, "This baby is going to be special. Every time I dream of her she is glowing a yellow or amber color. My 9 yo was writing a book (she is 19 now and has since not opened the book) It was about 2 sisters, and one of them dies. :( She felt so much guilt, I had to take her to counseling. She also dreamt the week before she passed away, that I had ran her over backing out of the garage. My husband one week before also stated he had an ugly feeling in his stomach but did not know why. I believe that we get all these signs for a reason, but many times the outcome is out of our hands. I loved hearing about the nursery vision in heaven. I had a dream a week or so after she passed of a group of women from every culture and ethnicity walking hand in hand in the middle of the street. As they turned a corner to come towards me, there was my sweet girl smiling, and glowing and she let's go of there hands and runs towards me, jumps up on me and hugs my neck as I kiss and caress her. This was huge for me as I could not bring myself to go see her when they had found her little body down the river. My husband assured me I didn't need to, and he'd go say bye for me. I felt horrible. I also dreamt of my daughter (the one who was writing the book) walking down the stairs and towards me and holding her tummy as she was about 6 months pregnant. I then said, guys LOOK! Its Chianne as I could somehow see inside her belly and it was her face. No one else could see it though. (Chianne and my daughter looked identical in baby pictures too and were very very close) I am just in awe at how sad sometimes this life could be, but also how amazingly beautiful it is. A reminder that if we didn't experience one, we couldn't experience the other. Bless you all!
     

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