Thank You Chelle. I looked into the Cherokee traditions and found the following, which does not match my memories..so this is interesting since they too walked the Trail of Tears. I am looking into specifically the Tribes that traveled the Trail of Tears. So perhaps that will help narrow my search and request.
Another memory from my journals which relates to the Choctaw way. "I see a woman draped in old blankets. She is crying and hitting the ground were they have just buried her child - the Christian way, a Christian burial. She did not want to leave her child in the ground, she is hitting it with her fists and pleading for the Great Spirit to help her.
The corpse was buried either in the floor directly under the place where the person had died, under the hearth, outside near the house, or in the case of a distinguished chief, under the seat he had occupied in the town council house.
When burial was outside, the priest and an adult relative would accompany the deceased. Sometimes the corpse was laid alongside a large rock, and a wall about eighteen inches high was built on the other side of the corpse to enclose it. Then, a covering of wood or an arch of stone was laid over it as a roof and stones were heaped over the whole to create a small tomb. Other times, a corpse was covered by two overlapping wooden boxes, then piled over with stones. Some people were buried in graves that were dug in earth, and rocks were laid over the graves to keep animals from getting into them.
Another memory from my journals which relates to the Choctaw way. "I see a woman draped in old blankets. She is crying and hitting the ground were they have just buried her child - the Christian way, a Christian burial. She did not want to leave her child in the ground, she is hitting it with her fists and pleading for the Great Spirit to help her.