Welcome sweejags, have you considered knowing his appearance prior to your incarnation, like in the life-planning stage? Do you have other memories or experiences with that person or otherwise that you would like to share? A lot of us are still trying to put the pieces together to understand our own circumstances in one form or another.
Thanks Ken J for responding. I can completely comprehend how difficult it is in life to get such visions and move on. So I am so glad to find this forum that shall help me rationalize my experience. Last two years it has been very difficult for me to logically comprehend my experiences that seem ridden with coincidences.
I met him about two years back, and I still get dreams about him. Since childhood I have been getting premonition dreams etc. , but not frequently. I kept dismissing them as I am a science student. When I met him, I was getting vivid visions, dreams all the time.
Initially I was getting 4 AM dreams of an 18'th century marriage, it had been us two. There were other dreams of my grandmother's hand on his head and etc. I kept dismissing them. We met through common crowds for a year, after which I left the city. During this year, we never got too close nor too friendly, but I am quite sure his eyes showed similar recognition, however I guess he didn't even know what was happening.
While he was around me I was also getting frequent vivid visions of other unhappy things that were to happen in my life. Most of these have occurred.
I had clear vibes when I was close to his house, and I had another vibe of where his new house or his friend's house maybe.. The way such vibes would come are also strange coincidences.
Once I left the place, out of curiosity I tried Astral Past Life regression. I had never heard of something like this, but I stumbled on this term per chance. Right on the first one I got vivid vision of a lifetime, with specific moments. Following this I have been trying regression and sometimes I get nothing, but other times I get vivid visions of a life of an 18'th century couple.
My skepticism tho'.. If we indeed had been together back then.. the fondness nostalgia and comfort I feel with this man must be felt by him too. We are not in touch tho' we have each other's contact, and I have no clarity on what his experiences are.
However, I still keep getting these vivid visions, tho not as often as when I used to be around him. A lot of you mention the eye contact and the eyes are the key memory. This is very true in my case. His eyes always made me feel extremely nostalgic.