Reincarnation is to me the believeing that I once will see my daughter again, who died when she was four months old from a congenital heart disease. The thought of reincarnation and the possibility of it being true is an enormous comfort and has helped me through the grief.
I absolutely did NOT believe in reincarnation before I lost her, but only a few days after she died a friend said to me that "souls never part". It felt comforting even if I didn't believe in any such mumbo jumbo things as souls...
I guess it is never too late to change your opinion. Or to have
your whole belief system turned upside down. ;-) One evening I
googled just that phrase and one webpage led to another and I came across the books of Carol Bowman, Brian Weiss, Michael Newton ... I bought and read book after book, which was kind of expensive, but better than any therapist.
I am now pregnant again with a little girl. One thing that makes me curious is a thing that my three year old niece said to my mother (her grandmother). I, my brother and my niece were visiting my parents over a weekend. In the morning my mother got up early and has breakfast with my niece. When I arrived in
the kitchen later in the morning my mother told me that my niece suddenly had said during breakfast that "mom is in Örebro and uncle J (my husband) is in Stockholm and cousin K (my daughter) is with the angels" then she looked surprised and continued "no, not anymore, she has taken the elevator down and she is with aunt L now".
I didn't know it then, but I later discovered I was pregnant at the time she said this.
Is it the soul of my firstborn daughter coming back? I have no way of knowing for sure now, but maybe time will tell.
I think it would be the most *lacking a strong enough adjective here* wonderful thing ever if that turns out to be the case, but I also think that if we live as souls for eternity, then there will
be plenty of time to see her again even if not in this lifetime. And whichever scenario, everything will be as it should be.
So, after my long ramblings, the conclusion is that reincarnation to me means comfort and a new sense of meaning to life and everything.